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it's great you've seen what you want to change into, but seeing the light at the end of the tunnel doesn't get you through the tunnel. you've got some work to do on yourself to solidify everything you've had a revelation about to the point that it's your new second nature. i'm sorry that she's met someone new, but unfortunately that means you're going to have to step back and let that run it's course. she's just getting to know the new guy so everything seems wonderful with him and that means every step you take to get her back makes her take 3 steps toward his arms. your best hope is to see your kid and be a great dad and let the mom see that, but be distant with her until she wants to patch up with you. eventually this new guy will mess up, and thats when she'll start wondering if she should be breaking up your family. when that happens, make sure you insist that this new guy's out the picture if that's what she wants. i hope it works for you.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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