It might be strange, but anyone I'm attracted to has the same level of self-image that I do about myself (which is "eh, won't scare the horses") but that I found to be extremely handsome if ruggedly so and they in turn think I'm prettier than I am. Only two men in my life could be seen by a few as ugly but they had charm to spare.
I married someone whose looks, at least at that time, were equal to mine or better. However, he's aging like shit. That brings me to another point about looks-attitude many times will dictate how you'll age and that really attractive person you fell so madly for might turn out to develop a really sour outlook and that will show.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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