I think my partner and I are at about the same level of attractiveness. I'm certainly not drop-dead gorgeous, but I do think I'm pretty and sexy, and my partner is handsome, but not a heartthrob. We're a good fit. Funny but true--when I first met my SO, I thought he was out of my league. I know better now.
I've never really had an unattractive boyfriend. Most of the guys I've dated have been pretty good-looking, actually! I'm used to getting compliments on my taste in men
I'd post pictures of E. and I so you could see how good-looking we are together, but he's not really into having his picture shared with the TFP.