Iliftrocks

At the risk of getting all pop-psychy, you need closure. You have probably been too busy finishing college to actually deal with your feelings. It really has nothing to do with her, and everything to do with how you feel about yourself.

Get drunk ( probably not ), have a big cry, or two, and try to get the self-pity out of your system. I really don't think you can move on until you indulge your sad, depressing feelings. Don't dwell there too long, either, you could get stuck. Once you've languished in this cesspool of emotion ( for a short time ), get out there and work on things that make you happy to be you.

You're going to be alright

** Ignore my sig, for the purposes of this post, heh **

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