Just been through a divorce myself, and my ex wife thinks that it doesn't effect me. I'm just trying to hold it together for my daughter, who lives with me. Kids get their cues from their parents. If you act like the world is ending, they will think so also. The good news is, just by being more positive, even if mostly an act, you too will become more positive and start thinking that everything is going to work out. Give yourself some time and breathing room.
Do take Crompsin's advice. Show your child that you are strong and capable and that you are not in any way abandoning her, or giving up on life.
Divorce does suck, btw
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