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Originally Posted by JumpinJesus
Also understand that his reaction to this has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with how he reacts to things. Don't use it as a way to value yourself, because his reaction to this is worthless as a judge of who you are.
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Amen to that. While I haven't been through a divorce, I've had my share of fights with my SO that ended badly, and he never seems to care.. but later, when we talk about it, he opens up.
In short: just because he doesn't show it doesn't mean he's not going through it. Don't go back to him. Try taking a page from his book. Put on a strong face, and smile if you can. You'd be surprised how when you pretend to be happy, you BECOME happy.