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Avoiding him as much as possible. It sounds like he's not interested in recovery, so you need to do damage control.
Keeping your paperwork straight. A lot of people get screwed up during/after a divorce with their money matters.
Focusing on your offspring. Daddy McCrankypants might be leaving, but you'll probably be stuck with a big chunk of baby bills.
Forgetting about relationships and focusing on yourself and your kid. That's what you've got and the kids loves the hell outta ya.
As was said in another thread: be selfish. Engage in the hobbies you like, go hang out with the friends you've been neglecting.
Exercise, take a class in something weird, go live your life. Start to believe that you are your own fortified little island.
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As a guy with a divorce under his belt: Getting married at 21 is asking for it. Too many volatile hormones and dreams.
Last edited by Plan9; 02-08-2009 at 07:17 PM..
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