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"looks both ways checking the So isn't on the board"
My SO has the same problem, usually when he's under stress
During foreplay all is good but as soon as he puts on a condom he just wilts, or just as we start really getting into it the same will happen, he constantly reassures me that it's nothing to do with me (and I like to think it's not considering how hard he has to try to hold off on orgasming at other times)
I don't take it personally, believe it or not most women know that stress, alcohol, drugs, lack of sleep anything like that can effect a mans ability to sustain or achieve an erection. They're not going to put pressure on you because they know 1) it's perfectly reasonable and 2) it'll make matters worse.
I would take Baraka Guru and onesnowyowl advice and just take some time for yourself, have some herbal teas or just take some time to do whatever relaxes you.
Give yourself some time and things will fix themselves.
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"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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