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Well I was actually in this type of situation not to long ago. I was dating a man who was 40 and I am 21 just like your self. I dated this guy for about six months or so. I did enjoy it, the sex was some of the most amazing that I've ever had and we were very compatible in bed or out of the bed we can say. There are still those things that are tough and come up when you are with some one that is 19 years older then you are. I have younger parents so he was the same age. We had issues when it came to me experiencing life and different things that I haven't yet done because I was so much younger. So we talked and agreed that we would be in an 'open' relationship. (this I do not recommended to ever do) We talked about it and talked about it before we decided to actually go threw with it. He couldn't handle it and things lets say just went very bad. (best way I can put it and still be respectful to him, don't know why i am though) Anyway, just make sure that you are really OK with all your differences and know that it will be very difficult especially only being 21, there are a lot of things in life that he has experienced that you have not and you may want to remain friends and possibly let a good amount of time go by before you get serious with this guy. I wish you the best of luck with what you decide. Looking forward to hearing how it goes.
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