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Originally Posted by little_tippler
I was thinking about the way people act during sexual intercourse or in the moments leading up to it. How much of what we do is actually something we instinctively feel compelled to do and how much of it is something we saw someone else doing (in photos or film, written text, or even real life)?
So how much of what you do, sexually, do you think, is coming from your own natural instincts? And how much of it did you pick up from somewhere? Does it all feel the same to you, is it all natural, regardless? Do you feel pressured to learn so that you can be 'better in the sack'
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Good questions, I'm glad you made this thread ltippler
I am confident in saying 100% of what I do in bed is what I instinctively feel compelled to do, every time. I am naturally empathetic, I crave that connection from sex, and can easily switch between what I want, what I want to do, and what that man wants.
I've watched porn before, but never really "picked up" any moves from what I've seen. I look for hot sex, connective sex, the kind of sex you rarely see in porn, except amateur stuff. And even then, if I find it, I just think "wow, that is HOT"
I'm so lucky to have a man that wants that same connection. We just instinctively know what to do when, it all feels impulsive and much desired. We've never taken a pause mid-sex and said "let me try this..." lol
I think if we did want to try something different we saw or heard about, we'd discuss it when we're not having sex, and then if we were both interested, it'd somehow fit its way in at some point.
I definitely don't let what is so popular in the porn industry dictate my own sex life.