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The day I lost my virginity was the first time I had seen a naked man, I had never seen any porn, either films or magazines. I only knew what went where. My first experience went fine, I learned a lot and have been learning ever since. It's like life - we keep learning as we go along, we try new things, we use our imagination - something either works or it doesn't, it's all a learning experience and before long we build up a considerable repertoire.
I feel no pressure whatsoever to learn new things. I'm curious, and always like to know what pleases a new partner, but I don't feel it's necessary to impress with any sort of sexual tricks. I'm not sure what crazy sexual stunts you are referring to and I question whether anyone should feel they have to engage in anything they don't want to do. Sex is about you and your partner enjoying your bodies together. Would you really want a partner who expected you to do things you didn't want to? You need a partner who you feel comfortable with, who wants you for you, not because you can pull some sort of sexual trick. Most men are just pleased to get a woman into bed.
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