I would probably choose serial monogamy or maybe lifetime monogamy. I think other relationship styles are very dependant on the partner you choose and your compatability together. In general the monogamous style is more simple and thus easier to maintain. Every time you add another person to the mix you add a great deal more variables and thus more potential for failure. That's not to say that a polygamous lifestyle or swinger lifestyle wouldn't work for some but it does entail a bit more risk. Some people are risk takers and others are definately not. I guess I must also include that some people are wired to be more sexually active or need more social/emotional connections and would feel neglected in even a very strong monogamous relationship. But those people who are unable to handle monogamy at all are relatively few.
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