Iliftrocks

You sound a lot like me. Sorry about that. heh

Anyway, my guess is that she was interested in you, but felt rejected by the time it took you to make your move. It happens a lot with introverts, and especially those of us with a smaller portion of self esteem than others. You are going to have to stick your neck out more often, if you want things to work for you. I'd give up on pursuing her if she's already moved on. Respect that she's got a new boyfriend. You can, and should, still be her friend. In the long run that might help you get over her more effectively. Otherwise, you might idolize her and create a way too perfect image of her to get over. (yeah, been there, done that)


Move on from this, but don't withdraw further. You obviously want a partner, just try to make sure you don't miss opportunities that come along.

BIG warning: Don't settle for the first one to come along either. Make sure the other person actually is a good match for you. (yeah, done that too. several times)

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