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Actually Cyn that made complete sense to me.
Think about it Brittni, everytime you are with someone you deem unattractive you remove the fact that you might be attracted to them and emotionally invest yourself into the relationship. You can do that to a certain extent anyways sure but there wiill always be something missing from your end, you will never have committed yourself into the relationship as much as your partner because they are also attracted to you on a physical level.
ngdawg also made some excellent points
Another possibility is that when it's a guy you actually like you want to keep them interested so that they hang around longer. You subconciously think that if you imply they will get sex eventually but don't start providing it that they will do so. I have a friend who does the same thing, she has a rule where if she doesn't want to see the guy again she'll make it into a one night stand but if she really likes the guy he only gets a kiss on the cheek after a date.
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