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Speaking from someone that has NO confidence and a ton of friends that have so much confidence in themselves that it leaves trails on the bar floor, having confidence in yourself is 90% of the battle. Some of my friends are NOT attractive, ugly mugs, fucked up grills, dip tobacco on a regular basis. The bad thing is they either have really hot girls or pick up smoking hot chicks on a regular basis. They are confident in their selves (ie they think they are billy bad asses) which girls pick up on. Self doubt is a stinky smell that women can pick up on in a second.
I agree with healer that when you are with someone you are more prone to talk to people (girls more often) because you know you have someone. If you know you are going to get laid after you leave the bar, then you are more prone to take chances that you normally wouldn't take. I know when I have a booty call waiting in the shadows that I hit on more girls than I normally would.
I need to do as the orignal poster did and make goals for myself. I have no problem talking to randoms, I can start a conversation with just about anybody. It's when it comes to attractive girls that I have the problem. Maybe tonight I'll actually ask out that girl I've been talking to at my favorite bar.
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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
In my own personal experience---this is just anecdotal, mind you---I have found that there is always room to be found between boobs.
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