Can you change her?
The answer is no btw. Fact is you can't change people they need to want to change and it doesn't sound like your mum really wants to. She's happy how she is, leave her alone because all you'll do is cause more angst.
As for taking care of your kids - well do you have some now? If not wait and see what happens - who knows how long it will be before you find the right woman and she gets pregnant.
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