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i had a "friend" who commit suicide. i saw him every day at the gym and other places, we talked a bit, said hi, nothing too deep, we were not really close, hence the quotes on the word freind. should i have talked to him more? when i saw him eating alone, should i have asked to join him? should he have asked me for help? thing is, you just dont know what someone is dealing with even if you see them everyday and think you know them. so dont think you somehow missed the signs and are somehow responsible.
dont be angry, dont think you should have done something, and like halx and xerxys said, dont bring it up at work. if you want to help, ask him out for a drink, if he agrees, let him know you will listen if he wants to talk and leave it up to him to ask for help.
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