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					Originally Posted by  genuinegirly
					 
				 
				List of things women virgins can be afraid of: 
sheer size of male anatomy 
concern over the pain involved 
confusion as to what sex entails 
insecurity (doesn't want to do something wrong) 
doesn't want to deal with the religious concequences of going all the way 
doesn't know quite what it would take to get pregnant and doesn't want to risk it 
wondering if she's with the man she wants to remember as her first lover 
concern over what her father/mother will do if he/she finds out 
			
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 Not necessarily afraid of, but concerned about.
I'll add:
you can't go back (undo the deed if you change your mind)
will someone walk in?
will he stop if she wants him to
wonders will he talk (bragging and ruining her reputation)?
doesn't want to be the first of her friends to take the plunge
wonders if he'll think less of her
does he really love her? does she really love him?