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dude let her go out or help her go out be there to support her in enjoying life, dont force her to be a shut in.
In the past year I have lost both of my grandmothers, both great strong women.
one had cancer for the past 5 or 6 years. The week before she died she wanted to mow their couple acres of property. so we got the riding mower out, helped her get on it and let her mow the lawn... it was probably one of the last things she did before she became completely bed ridden.
The other had a fall and broke her neck, but didn't realize it, and waited a week before going to the hospital. but in that week my grampa was helping her do all the routine things she enjoyed. right before going to the hospital she went and filmed an episode of her local access cable channel show, she quickly went downhill after that and died a few days later.
I would have helped them do pretty much anything to help them enjoy their final days
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