Hyacinthe

dlish thanks very much for your comment - it made me blush irl

PonyPotato you're right - I completely forgot about the age thing

Studentech

I actually meant in regards to her doing so to you (not exactly mutual masturbation if it's not mutual ) getting her used to your penis involves her seeing and touching it and realising that it's not scary - that it's not about to attack her at some point (sound ridiculous but most fears are illogical)

I still advocate the full blatant discussion - if she's not able to articulate why she's uncomfortable with sex you'll just have to lkeave it for a bit. I am a string believer that if you can't sit down and talk about sex with someone you shouldn't be having it (ofcourse that being said my SO and clients at work still find it amusing that I start blushing when they talk dirty)

It's nice to see that she means so much to you, comments like that give me alot more faith that human kind isn't destined to go down the moral gurgler.

In the mean time there's always porn after all!

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