After my divorce, during my early 30's, I dated around for a five-year period. With the women I ended up having sex with (eight, total), half of those were on the 1st or 2nd date, and the other half strictly adhered to the "3rd date = have sex" rule. (A rule I had not been aware of, at first, in my early 30's and post-divorce, having gotten married so young and thus formerly having only dated as a teenager.)
So, according to my experience: on the 1st or 2nd date, if she isn't really interested in you long-term and/or if she has "loose" morals (wink, grin); otherwise, by the 3rd date.
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