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Originally Posted by SabrinaFair View Post
I'm gonna go with the cop-out answer and say, "When it feels right." I'm more of a case-by-case kind of gal; not so much a fan of bright-line rules. With my most recent ex, we hopped in the sack pretty quickly. (OK, very quickly) We ended up dating for three years. Other fellows, it's been much longer. It depends on the circumstances of the relationship, what you want from it, the comfort level between the two of you, etc. The way I see it, any fellow who dumps me for sleeping with him too soon is an asshole unworthy of my time, anyhow. And any fellow who won't wait until I'm comfortable getting down....well, he's an asshole too.
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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
I'm going to agree with Sabrina here.
I think it's one of those things where you have to treat each relationship differently because they are different. Making standard rules for all your potential romantic relationships just doesn't work.
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Like on many issues, I'm have to agree with Snowy and Sabrina here. It's always different and shouldn't matter. As long as it feels right and nobody feels pressured into anything.
It can be trouble thou, if you sleep with someone too soon, and then find out what a horrible person they are after. That can happen even after a few months, because most people tend not to show their bad side right away.