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ItWasMe · 11-20-2008, 06:34 PM

I tend to become even more emotionally involved after sex. Then, if he turns out to be a jerk, my habit is to stay much longer than I should and put up with more crap than anyone ever should put up with. Even if the guy starts becoming emotionally/verbally/physically abusive. The situation with my first husband is a classic example of this. But I know this about myself now, and I hope that's part of the key to not falling into that trap.

So, for me, the best answer is to wait until I know him very well.

11-20-2008, 06:34 PM	#11 (permalink)
ItWasMe But You'll Never Prove It. Location: under your bed	I tend to become even more emotionally involved after sex. Then, if he turns out to be a jerk, my habit is to stay much longer than I should and put up with more crap than anyone ever should put up with. Even if the guy starts becoming emotionally/verbally/physically abusive. The situation with my first husband is a classic example of this. But I know this about myself now, and I hope that's part of the key to not falling into that trap. So, for me, the best answer is to wait until I know him very well. __________________ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . "Ok, no more truth-or-dare until somebody returns my underwear" ~ George Lopez I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe