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Originally Posted by SabrinaFair
I'm gonna go with the cop-out answer and say, "When it feels right." I'm more of a case-by-case kind of gal; not so much a fan of bright-line rules. With my most recent ex, we hopped in the sack pretty quickly. (OK, very quickly) We ended up dating for three years. Other fellows, it's been much longer. It depends on the circumstances of the relationship, what you want from it, the comfort level between the two of you, etc. The way I see it, any fellow who dumps me for sleeping with him too soon is an asshole unworthy of my time, anyhow. And any fellow who won't wait until I'm comfortable getting down....well, he's an asshole too.
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I'm going to agree with Sabrina here.
I think it's one of those things where you have to treat each relationship differently because they
are different. Making standard rules for all your potential romantic relationships just doesn't work.
My current SO and I slept together on our first real date, and we've been together three years.