Depends on what your goal for the relationship is. I have had sex with people within a few minutes of meeting them. There was never an expectation of any more than that.
For women that I have had long-term relationships the average wait before sex is less than a week. Except for when I was a young teenager; the wait then was longer. However, I was not very monogamous back then so there were people with whom I had sex very quickly ... outside of my long-term relationship.
For my wife and I the wait was about a week after we met (mostly due to circumstances beyond our control). We've been married for 10 years now and we dated off and on for 8 or so years before we got married.
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