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In my current relationship, I am not sure if we are at the point where both of us feel secure enough to separately dabble sexually with other people. We had a few rough patches that nearly ended the relationship and caused a great deal of emotional turmoil, and while we seem to be past the issues that surrounded it, our skin is somewhat tender. What makes matters more complicated is that we are separated by long distance for the following few years, which only allows us to be together through IM, e-mail, and IRC.
We've discussed the situation on many occasions, and what I gathered from it is that neither of us are able to accept sexual exploration with others unless we engage in it as a couple, and since distance keeps us apart, that limits the scope to virtual threesomes. We have little experience with that, however, and we aren't actively pursuing the possibility.
Essentially, we're willing to allow others into our bed, but we won't venture elsewhere unless doing so together.
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