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Old 11-10-2008, 08:38 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Frosstbyte View Post
If you're being honest in saying you don't care very much for them, then you can probably have a perfectly healthy relationship without them and won't be tempted by the thought of getting them from someone else. If it's something you're constantly curious about and craving, and she's simply unwilling to budge on the issue, then you need to decide (1) if you want to be with a person who is unwilling to compromise with you on something you want and (2) if this particular thing you want is critical enough to your happiness to potentially end a relationship over. I don't know the answer to that question. I don't know how much you care about a girl sucking your dick.
Excellent, excellent advice. Very well-put, and applicable to just about any other item of potential conflict in a relationship, sexual or otherwise. This is how most people sort out whether or not they are compatible in the long term with their partner, at least in my experience.
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