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Originally Posted by streak_56
I was talking to my mom the other day and she said that if my girlfriend isn't ready to give me BJs now, then I will more than likely cheat when we're married. And I was surprised to find out that my Aunt told my cousin the same thing. I don't understand it.
Now, I brought this up with my girlfriend, why it is such a repulsive thing for her to do. And all she said was "because I just don't like the taste, I don't like doing it." Personally, I don't care for them either, although I do like foreplay. I go down on her whenever I like to, I mix it up, instead of making out, I go down on her but she wouldn't even consider going down on me. I shave down there, I wash atleast twice a day down there and I know the my penis smells like a penis sometimes slightly scented with soap/cologne.
Now, I'm wondering if this is true, would I be more prone to cheating because she doesn't give me BJs? And how would I be able to change her mind into a "once in a blue moon" giving me BJs.
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If you have a solid relationship with your girlfriend (potential wife if I understand your post correctly) & the relationship remains solid after marriage, then I don't see her refusal to give you head as an indicator that you're going to cheat. You would have to become totally obsessed with getting a BJ to risk jepordizing your marriage & your relationship with your wife.
Over time if your wife still refused to give you a BJ, & you did eventually cheat, I'd guess that the BJ issue wasn't the only reason for your cheating.
Also, congrats for being able to have such open conversations with your mom.