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I'm not sure this is helpful, but I once had a girlfriend who wouldn't either. Everything else was fantastic, so I didn't mind. That's the point, I didn't mind because I was happy overall. Men who cheat are almost inevitably immature, greedy bastards. They forget that one blowjob ain't worth potential years of wondrous coitus. As someone who has had 80-90 lovers in his life, I can tell you, the ones you love are the best. If she won't blow you, how about lubed hand jobs while you watch football (a joke, sort of)? I think what your Mom was trying to get at is, if the man is not satisfied, he will stray. For women that's true too, these days.
So, are you satisfied with your sex life, right now?
Are blowjobs that important?
If yes, are you happy with jerking off to blowjob porn?
Are you immature enough to think you can have your cake and eat it too?
Is love more/as important as new adventures to you?
Are you really young 18-23? If so, her attitude often will change over time. When women feel REALLY secure with a man, they often get VERY, VERY sexual. That why smart guys buy toys when the ladies go white hot. If you rely on your tongue, she might make it so you can't speak for days.
Just a few thoughts...
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Love is a verb, not a noun.
-My Mom
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-Louis Aragon, "La Porte-plume," Traite du style, 1928
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