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Well, people generally cheat because they feel like something is missing in their current relationship. So if you really want blowjobs, and your girlfriend/wife isn't giving you blowjobs, and you just can't stop thinking about getting one, then it would increase your chances of being tempted into cheating with someone who would give you a blowjob. Certainly, I'd imagine most people's partners don't do literally everything they'd like or want them to do in the sack, and for many people it's not a problem to compromise and not be a douche by cheating on the person because of that.
If you're being honest in saying you don't care very much for them, then you can probably have a perfectly healthy relationship without them and won't be tempted by the thought of getting them from someone else. If it's something you're constantly curious about and craving, and she's simply unwilling to budge on the issue, then you need to decide (1) if you want to be with a person who is unwilling to compromise with you on something you want and (2) if this particular thing you want is critical enough to your happiness to potentially end a relationship over. I don't know the answer to that question. I don't know how much you care about a girl sucking your dick.
As for how to get her to once in a while partake of it, I'd definitely continue to do what you've been doing. Stay clean for her, pay attention to her needs and make sure she's getting what she wants sexually. Also, be honest. Tell her you know it's not her favorite thing to do, but that every once in a while, it would be a very special present for you if she wouldn't mind doing it. That you don't expect it and understand that she's adverse to it being a regular sexual situation. Communication is a big part of healthy sex lives. Perhaps some of the ladies whose minds have been changed might also offer you some advice.
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