Does she have any sex toys (e.g. a vibrator)? If not, is she willing to try one?
Interesting about the wetness... I get more wet when I'm doing it myself than I do during regular sex. I think it just takes me so long to warm up, and when I'm doing it myself I have all the time in the world... so I get wetter that way. I also LOOOVE my vibrator, lol.
How old is your fiance, btw? I should also disclose that I did not really start masturbating until I was 22, since up until that point it had never really occurred to me to try it. (I was also a virgin.) Is your fiance religious?
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