In my case, the desire for "rough" (externally) sex is something influenced primarily by mood and my pain tolerance for the day. Now, with a hurt wrist and me constantly running into things, I often want gentle sex because I'm afraid I'll hurt myself some more. But I'll still get rough if that's on my mind.
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"Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark."
— Henri-Frédéric Amiel
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