How do i seal the deal?
Ok this is probably going to be a long and complex explanation to give everyone as good as possible grasp of the situation. First off im 18 and am originally from a small country town so I have only really started to get my act together when talking to girls I dont know etc. Im also in Australia and am an Aussie if that makes any difference. Anyway my housemates girlfriend came over early last night as she normaly does and had a friend with her who is pretty attractive (we will call her Jess). As our kitchen and lounge are in the one open room I was doing my own thing joining in the conversation while cooking myself tea as im friends with my housemate and get along with his girlfriend. Jess was joining in as well though didnt think she was showing me any abnormal amount of attention not that I was too fussed as I wasnt trying to have sex with her or anything like that.
After a bit they leave and go out for the night and im home on the couch because I didnt feel like going out. About two hours later at probably 11pm Jess arrives back at our house by herself because "she was tried" and kept emphasising this with loud obviously fake yawns. We sat about talking on the couch for probably an hour and from what I notcied she was pretty keen on me despite throughout the conversation realising I was 3 years her junior. After a while my housemate and his girlfriend arrived home and joined us on the couch for 10 minutes or so before heading off to his room again leaving me and Jess alone. It was already predetermined Jess was sleeping on a mattress that was located behind the couch I was sitting on. She got herself ready for bed and then lay in it all the while talking to me and texting her friends and flicking through FHM failing to mention how "tried" she was. This probably went on for another 10 minutes all the while me knowing im in with a prime chance here and not knowing how to seize it and have a crack at her. Eventually I cut my losses, made a point of getting ready for bed, watched a couple of more minutes of tv and then went to bed.
My question to you guys and gals is this. What would you have done if you were in my situation and in the future how can I go from sitting on the couch to laying in her bed with her? Im quite confident eitherside of this problem its just that I havent yet been able to perfect this area of my game and im looking to fast track this with a little help from TFP.
Last edited by ash_1050; 10-17-2008 at 04:42 PM..
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