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I used to have self confidence problems also. And by used to, still do. But I found an OK system to deal with it.
What I was afraid of, primarily, is that the girls would/were saying no because I didn't have anything to offer- not handsome, bad breath, too fat, too short, too tall, whatever. So I started approaching the problem from the assumption that I was, in fact, worthless. That way, if they said no, I wasn't surprised. If I was made fun of, then those people were the lowest scum on Earth for picking on someone as lowly as me, so fuck them. And if they said yes, then maybe this person was great, but I was going to need to be careful and just not throw my whole heart in the first five minutes.
It works out pretty good for awhile, keeps you going until the first girl that you really connect with comes along and yuo date her long term. Then you're going to have to start liking yourself again.
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