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Originally Posted by Jozrael
Abaya, I felt everything you said, but couldn't express it as eloquently. Props to you for being so tolerant.
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Thanks Joz, though Peaches said it even better and more succinctly!
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Originally Posted by Peaches
I would only caution that you handle it in a loving, supportive way. Try to remember not to degrade him in the process. Phrases such as "That's disgusting" are probably not helpful, and can lead him to close up and not share his desires with you in the future. From your description, he already seems embarrassed and insecure about it and you want him to relax and open up to you. No one should pressure you into doing anything you're not comfortable with, but the tone you set now is likely to have long lasting effects on your relationship.
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Quoted for truth. Extremely important to remember, even if the relationship might not last.