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mixedsubstance · 10-10-2008, 05:05 PM

Been on the Nuvaring for over 3 years now BUT I am getting the IUD in 2 weeks.

Why have you chosen your method(s) of birth control?
The Nuvaring has been a gem for the most part- only having to change it out once a month, it hardly ever slips out, and you can't feel it at all. I do, however, have discharge, occassional blood clots, weight gain (which is ok except it's all going to my belly), and sometimes a period, even though I switch it out right away without a break. It can be costly without insurance (about $70) but with insurance, it's around $25 for me. The IUD, however, lasts 5-7 years, still contains hormones (unless you choose the copper one which i won't), is cheaper in the long-run, and is usually almost fully covered with insurance. It's a one-time deal for years to come. It's especially great if you are in a committed, monogomous relationship, but neither of you want or can afford to get 'fixed'. Also, I got pregnant off of using a condom or the foam- so I will never again use either. I am allergic to the pill- I get an itchy rash- even with various different types. And it's a pain to remember to take everyday. I've also done the withdrawal method, which isn't bad, but I'd rather feel him inside of me, and I am sure visa versa, plus sometimes it's hard for the male to control and catch it in time.

Are you in a committed relationship?
Yes I am- and I think being on a birth control that works for you is most important- no matter what.

Are you using birth control for quality of life, health or financial reasons?
I already have a son from my marriage, and my boyfriend of over 3 years has 2 daughters of his own. Ideally, we wish to not have any more kids, though the whole fantasy of sharing that special bond with each other seems nice. But where we sit right now, it's not in the books for us. I just don't want either of us to take that option away by getting 'fixed' if our minds change- but at the same time- we don't want to be 60 when our kid is graduating HS. Financially, as well, it wouldn't be right.

10-10-2008, 05:05 PM	#9 (permalink)
mixedsubstance Crazy Location: Where the wild things are.	Been on the Nuvaring for over 3 years now BUT I am getting the IUD in 2 weeks. Why have you chosen your method(s) of birth control? The Nuvaring has been a gem for the most part- only having to change it out once a month, it hardly ever slips out, and you can't feel it at all. I do, however, have discharge, occassional blood clots, weight gain (which is ok except it's all going to my belly), and sometimes a period, even though I switch it out right away without a break. It can be costly without insurance (about $70) but with insurance, it's around $25 for me. The IUD, however, lasts 5-7 years, still contains hormones (unless you choose the copper one which i won't), is cheaper in the long-run, and is usually almost fully covered with insurance. It's a one-time deal for years to come. It's especially great if you are in a committed, monogomous relationship, but neither of you want or can afford to get 'fixed'. Also, I got pregnant off of using a condom or the foam- so I will never again use either. I am allergic to the pill- I get an itchy rash- even with various different types. And it's a pain to remember to take everyday. I've also done the withdrawal method, which isn't bad, but I'd rather feel him inside of me, and I am sure visa versa, plus sometimes it's hard for the male to control and catch it in time. Are you in a committed relationship? Yes I am- and I think being on a birth control that works for you is most important- no matter what. Are you using birth control for quality of life, health or financial reasons? I already have a son from my marriage, and my boyfriend of over 3 years has 2 daughters of his own. Ideally, we wish to not have any more kids, though the whole fantasy of sharing that special bond with each other seems nice. But where we sit right now, it's not in the books for us. I just don't want either of us to take that option away by getting 'fixed' if our minds change- but at the same time- we don't want to be 60 when our kid is graduating HS. Financially, as well, it wouldn't be right. __________________ Well, isn't that just kick-you-in-the-crotch, spit-on-your-neck fantastic?!? Without energy, there would be nothing. Last edited by mixedsubstance; 10-10-2008 at 05:15 PM..