I live in the very red state of TN and for those friendships that I have I typically shy away from talking politics with those that are in the "red", it's tough at this time with the election but it's doable. I do have friends (and my spouse) that have similar positions so I do talk with them. I have run in with a few over the years that will not shut up and want to argue and I typically stop all personal communication (still have to work with a couple), if you cant respect my opinions and beliefs, I don't need them in my life.
I typically have the rule of not talking religion or politics with people I don't know very well. If the subject comes up I either casually change the subject and if they cant take the hint I ask to change the subject with the ole "I have my beliefs and nothing you can say will change them" if that doesn't work I clam up or leave if possible.
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