I was actually never exposed to those fairy tales until I got to school and we started reading them in class - out of school I was always given fairytales like the one
ngdawg describes
For example these are some of the fairy tales I grew up with
The Little Mermaid
Echo & Narcissus
The Happy Prince
So I never really had the whole idea of story book romance, even when I was exposed to it it was followed quickly by my mother and aunt making comments along the lines of
"Watch out for that Prince on the white stallion who's going to come charging into your living room cause before you know it he'll be asking for dinner, wanting his boots shined and the horse will have cr*pped on the rug"