Thread: What is Sex? v2
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Old 10-06-2008, 07:43 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Halx View Post
Sex is a lot of different things to me, depending on the situation. I could never classify it as one thing in particular because I am looking to accomplish different things with it at different times. In one instance it can be a passionate embrace with someone I love. In other instances it could be a release of aggression or an exploration of pleasure. At times it can simply be a personal challenge or even a workout. I try not to idealize sex, I just focus on what I enjoy. The sights and sounds are what thrill me the most. In the more intimate encounters, I enjoy those breathy moans from my partner that tell me she's totally.. feeling me. In the more energetic and aggressive bouts, I like Spoiler: looking down to see my big dick absolutely demolishing that little pussy.

One point of contention I've always had with many others is that I can separate love and sex completely. I can have sex with someone I don't love because, as stated above, what I get out of it isn't emotional. That isn't to say that I can't have emotional sex, or that sex can't help strengthen a relationship. A lot of people see sex as the last step in bonding with a person - completely vet their potential as an emotional partner and THEN have sex to seal the deal. Well, I see it as the first step in bonding with a person. Maybe its just my history of having so many female friends who are JUST friends because I never made a move, now it makes no sense to me to have a relationship without knowing if your two bodies fit together well. And with a guy my size, its important to know that I wont be knee deep in love with someone BEFORE we find out that she just cant handle me.

Its not all logistics though. I recognize that sex can be more intense when you have feelings for the person. I just don't see the need to have it so intense all the time. I like variety and frivolity. I disagree with holding sex on some high fuckin' pedestal. To me, its absolutely delusional to reserve it for only the closest to heart. I AM an animal and I have my animal needs.
+1 My answers are very similar. Sex is a lot of different things depending on the situation. Needless to say, I think it's one of the purest forms of expression whether the expression is that of lust or love.

As far as how sex feels for me..I don't know how to answer that because it depends on the situation. Either way, it's fun and it feels good.
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