My views on sex change alot, almost daily infact. Sometimes sex seems like the most intimate thing you can share with another person, letting them see you when you have lost all control. At other times, specially after a long night at work it doesn't feel like it's anything much more then the plain reproduction of the species thing.
My parents are extremely conservative when it comes to sex, it was never talked about in our house. Even when my siblings and I hit puberty our parents never sat us down and explained things - instead we got given a book "Where did I come from"
Despite this my sister and I are extremely open about sex, before she got her current Bf she used to ask me to buy her lube and sex toys infact (way too much info about my sister sex life) since I get an industry discount.
Do you know what the human body goes through when you have sex? Pupils dilate, arteries constrict, core temperature rises, heart races, blood pressure skyrockets, respiration becomes rapid and shallow, the brain fires bursts of electrical impulses from nowhere to nowhere and secretions spit out of every gland, and the muscles tense and spasm like you’re lifting three times your body weight. It’s violent, it’s ugly, and it’s messy, and if God hadn’t made it unbelievably fun the human race would have died out eons ago.
These day I still think sex is something special, something that you shouldn't share with just anyone (maybe because of my one terrible one night stand). I'm not however going to wait around for that mystical, magical 'one' (no offence to those who are) I'm not going to put any aspect of my life on hold, whether that's in regards to my career, my emotions or my sex life. As long as I feel some kind of connection or attraction for the person as far as I am concerned they are a viable sex partner.
Don't get me wrong. I still think true love's out there it's just very far away. Possibly in another galaxy. We may need to develop faster than light travel before we can make contact. For me sex is necessary, even if the only person I'm having it with is myself
As for what it feels like to me, I could go on for hours. It's a tie between whether an orgasm feels better or that first thrust, that first real entry, it feel like my entire body opens up and from that point onwards tingles run up and down my body from the top of my head to the soles of my feet. It's as though I can feel every teensy hair on my body standing on end and everytime my partner brushes against me I can feel it 50 times over. Orgasm itself, my back spasms, I find myself biting down on my lip (or whatever is available), my entire pelvic region feel like, I dunno if there are words. It feels like sherbet mixed with carbonated beverage where it fizzes over the top and goes everywhere in one sticky, bubbling mass. It makes me feel as though my body just can't contain all of that emotion and pleasure. As though at any moment I am going to shatter into a trillion shards. It's like biting into your favourite fruit and intensifying that sensation til you can barely stand it.
That doesn't reall describe what it's like at all but it's as close as I can get.