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ASU2003 · 10-03-2008, 03:28 PM

I seem to have the opposite problem from this thread:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...dependent.html

Let's see, I have been on my own for the past 10 years since I moved out of my parents house. I went to college on the other side of the country where I knew nobody in a 1,000 mile (maybe 1,500) radius. I also don't like it when people are depending on me. It puts pressure on me to come through. And besides at work and talking to the neighbors a little, I hardly talk to anyone. During this weekend, I will be watching TV, using the computer, kayaking in the middle of nowhere, mountain biking, setting up some things in my house, and sleeping.

I'm not a big fan of other people doing stuff for me if I can do it myself. And I tend not to trust people all that much. Then again, my life isn't all that exciting, and I like being in control of me and getting away from it all sometimes.

So, what's the right level of dependency? Or are there a few things I can do to test out to see if I can become a little more dependent?

10-03-2008, 03:28 PM	#1 (permalink)
ASU2003 immoral minority Location: Back in Ohio	How to be more dependant? I seem to have the opposite problem from this thread: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...dependent.html Let's see, I have been on my own for the past 10 years since I moved out of my parents house. I went to college on the other side of the country where I knew nobody in a 1,000 mile (maybe 1,500) radius. I also don't like it when people are depending on me. It puts pressure on me to come through. And besides at work and talking to the neighbors a little, I hardly talk to anyone. During this weekend, I will be watching TV, using the computer, kayaking in the middle of nowhere, mountain biking, setting up some things in my house, and sleeping. I'm not a big fan of other people doing stuff for me if I can do it myself. And I tend not to trust people all that much. Then again, my life isn't all that exciting, and I like being in control of me and getting away from it all sometimes. So, what's the right level of dependency? Or are there a few things I can do to test out to see if I can become a little more dependent?