Originally Posted by Halx

Gonna disagree with you here. Sex is whatever a person wants it to be. That doesn't mean that they have low self esteem if they want it to be a simple act of passion. Your own definition of sex depends largely on your personal boundaries and whatever culture you may have grown up in. If people of another culture treat sex with more frivolity, it does not mean that an entire population is suffering from self-esteem problems. Its just a different perception.

With all that said, I've never had sex with a stranger, but I'd like to appease that fantasy.