curiousbear

Anyone ever had sex with a stranger? Some one who dont know name or where from? It could be intercourse, oral or handjob. Need not have to be in public place, but not planned through online or friends. Real stranger!

Or any of your close friends or family did it?

Ayashe

No, I am sure it could be incredibly hot though. .. not that I am looking.

Xerxys

Yep, was not bad, just ordinary one night stand. Learnt something new....

Charlatan

A few times. Like any sex, some was great and some was not so great.

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kramus

We like to hear the Original Poster's thoughts and experiences which have led up to creating the thread. Makes it more involving and personal, perhaps.
To answer your question - no. Saw the possibility a couple of times but backed off due to circumstances and my natural timidity (I was either a scared virgin or married and not willing to fuck that up for a quickie).
Had an ex brother-in-law who did it different times in a way that totally freaked me out. He did a woman up against an alley wall in a downtown street in the middle of the day, after she came up to him and told him she wanted to fuck him. Really happened - verified by multiple independent witnesses. They were amazed. He also picked up a street person and used her in a very slutty manner - he was rather pleased that she would do whatever he told her to.
His acts seemed hot on the surface but always led to his getting in trouble - with other flaky people who had some connection with his sex partners, or the partners themselves. I kept expecting he would either get diseased (he sometimes did strangers without using protection) or have his head beaten in - he did get sucker punched and beaten up a few times.
He also used prostitutes - do they count in your question?
edit - forgot about the other ex brother-in-law who was a real slut of a roadie. Travelled across Canada with a bar band and got the clap at least 3 different times, and fucked strange women in strange circumstances including group scenes in hotels which sounded very, very surreal.

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MSD

Read my post in Halx's sex fantasies thread for more. I haven't run into the situation while properly prepared, but I can't say I haven't been seriously tempted or haven't risked anything for a good time.

ironman

Well, he's just a "curiousbear" , by the way, welcome to the forum curiousbear

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curiousbear

Thanks Ironman!

Hi Kramus
During school days I thought it was wrong so dint take the chances. Later I politely (helplessly) skipped some bcoz I am already committment to my gf. Once I got an unexpected handjob (pretty good one thou). I was embarrassed but could not help enjoying it. I had to tell my gf but she dint mistake me. But I think it is a fantasy (curiosity - preferbly when my gf is with me). When I watched it happen in almost like love movie i felt real hot about it.

Cernunnos

As a fantasy, it's a fairly powerful one for me. I enjoy the idea of two individuals overcome by physical lust and their own horniness, deciding to fuck like rabbits in a shadowy place. Nothing left to trace but the lingering scent and taste, not even a name to whisper.

PlanG

That's how I lost my virginity.

Didn't even say hi.

Probably wouldn't recommend it though as a virginity-losing method - I'd rather have done it with someone I trusted.

I could see it being quite fun though in the future, although I prefer relationships I think, in my limited experience.

Anormalguy

No. It does sound appealing but at this time in my life only as a fantasy.

mixedmedia

No, and it's always been a fantasy of mine, but I am of an age of disenchantment, I suppose...

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Jozen-Bo

Yes...more then once I might add. It sort of happened like this...I am talking with someone I just met and the next thing I know...we're getting it on. It mixes the excitement of the unknown with a keen sensation of strangeness. In most of the cases, we stayed strangers.

Strange...isn't it?

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mia_ad

I had sex with strangers in the past, but it is certainly not a solution for better sex. I recommend highly to be careful and at least to have safe sex, because you never know these days what to get from it. You sleep with a stranger, that person has most likely also sex with other strangers. And aids isn't funny, two of my friends are HIV-positiv and it's certainly nothing like a cold.

Jenna

Yes, I was camping with a bunch of friends and I met the guy that night, had sex with him (which was awful because I was outside in the middle of summer with mosquitos everywhere) and I didn't see him ever again.

I've flashed plenty of strangers as well.

Plaid13

I would never no matter how much fun i think it would be. Just not safe in todays world. condoms are not perfect. HIV/herpes for the rest of your life over something like that would really suck. In a perfect world without STDs or crazy people sure go for it have a blast. In the real world its too reckless.

World's King

I have. A lot.


Whatever.

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pornclerk

Yes, I did it a few months ago. I should feel bad but I look back on it and still think it was incredibly exciting.

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Makedde

I have never had sex with a stranger, and I never will. IMO, people who do this have low self esteem, and not a lot of respect for their bodies. They also seem to misunderstand that sex is meant to be special, not handed to some random person whose name you don't even know.

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curiousbear

Concidentally I watched Lucia and sex today...

Halx

Gonna disagree with you here. Sex is whatever a person wants it to be. That doesn't mean that they have low self esteem if they want it to be a simple act of passion. Your own definition of sex depends largely on your personal boundaries and whatever culture you may have grown up in. If people of another culture treat sex with more frivolity, it does not mean that an entire population is suffering from self-esteem problems. Its just a different perception.

With all that said, I've never had sex with a stranger, but I'd like to appease that fantasy.

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jewels

For you youngsters
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One night stands were very common prior to about 1983. The times were so different, love was all you needed and people were happy, or at least high.

Yes, I had sex with many strangers in the past and I'm glad I did. I haven't had a stranger, though, in about 26 years.

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Tully Mars

People are still having plenty of one night stands.

Myself ONS's were a lot more enjoyable years ago. I think as we mature there's a need for more of a connection with the other person to have enjoyable sex.

Of course that could just be me. I know a lot of people, most older then I, down here doing the one night stand thing and seem quite pleased with the situation. Actually due the cruise ship schedule it's more of a one day stand here. Every Tues, Wed and Thurs. there's a fresh batch of half drunk tourists looking for fun.

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curiousbear

I never had one night stands in past, and I regret it!
I cannot have any one night stands in future and I cant do anything about it

When I was very young I beleived that sex can happen only with some one whom you know and relate to. I was waiting for a soulmate.
Now utterly frankly the very thought of having a ONS is really hot. But its all too late. I got committed at 25 and after that it is just not possible.
I dont know about the self-esteem thing... I just know I missed some amazing fun and time is a one way journey

genuinegirly

This has never appealed to me. I'm a sucker for emotional attachment.

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MrFriendly

Wise words from a wise man.

Having sex with a total stranger doesn't sound like my particular cup of chai, but I certainly don't make assumptions about those who do.

Sometimes two people just have an incredible chemistry and getting it on just seems the natural and right thing to do..... at the time....

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Aladdin Sane

Yep. Sex is what you make of it.

I've had sex with strangers. It was about getting my rocks off.

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curiousbear

What if some one never had a real HOT sex in life and comes across some one very attractive, in a very opt moment, the setting is just right and it just fires up...

lostgirl

Sounds like a good way too pick up an STD.

Not something I would do.

kutulu

I did once. Met her in a bar and got oral from her a couple hours later.

KirStang

Oh yes. The walk of shame home, lol.

Makedde

Still wouldn't be right to me. I'm not preaching morals here, but I really do feel that sex is something special, to be shared only between two people who love, and are committed to each other. One night stands don't have that special meaning, it's just...sex.

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little_tippler

I have to say that description is really HOT. Yes I hear all the other people saying practical things like it's good to get STD's, the shame, no emotional attachment...but I'm still horny. Maybe just once for the experience?

That being said, I am also a sucker for emotional attachment genuinegirly...though that seems to be changing with age. I wonder why?

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curiousbear

Same here! I guess I have come one full circle.
while very young I wanted sex only with someone very close emotionally.
But now that concept is faded away from my attitude

BTW i am in strict monogamy.

highdro69

oh, i thought this was an advertisement for some sex with a stranger. i'm in the wrong place. i'll leave now

Hyacinthe

I've tried a one night stand once in my life, put me off forever, turns out the girl was into breath play, ofcourse she didn't mention this til after she had tried to choke me and then got all surprised when I reacted in a less then posititve fashion.

I'll stick to my FWB / current SO or toys thanks

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Lindy

When I was young, I'd do it with just about anybody that wanted to, though true "strangers" were hard to come by in my small town. But one time --I was still in high school at the time-- I hooked up with a young guy in an Air Force uniform at an interstate rest area. He was just completely nonplussed when I approached him.It was a quick blowjob in his car, but I'd call it sex. It was totally hot at the time. And when he got off, I thought he was never going to stop cumming. Made quite the mess. Sometimes I think "Sheesh, what the hell did I do that for?" But every time I drive down that interstate, I think about it, and wonder if he still remembers that slutty sixteen year old at the rest area. And I get slightly damp just thinking about it.
Would I do it again? Maybe.

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BogeyDope

And driving sounds like a good way to die...oh, so does eating Ice Cream and breathing air.

Other than that, I too would like to appease that fantasy...assuming I have a condom ready haha.

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nomcat

That was you??? OH MY GOD!!!

Trust me, he remembers you.