She has a boyfriend, she told you that for a reason. Her boyfriend tried to save you the trouble already. I can see the misunderstanding of "going out with" vs being a couple. I am sure you asking her out flattered her a bit, perhaps that is the vibe that you are feeling. It isn't a good thing to push harder on a female that is already taken, if you "won" what have you truly "won" other than someone who has little respect for longterm relationships? Not to mention the future awkwardness between the three of you at work after the relationship is broken, not a good game plan.
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