Pardon my english. It was in a lunch I heard from him. It was very personal. And when I was shocked the other men on table said "Welcome to America". Unfortunately there were no women on the lunch table for an alternative point of view.
"I don't think alimony should ever apply, unless it's for a woman who hasn't worked and then it should be provided only to survive until she completes training or school."
After marraige first thing I did was to make her realize that she can be on her own. I put her through trainings, and made her have a job/career. She was very happy with all that. And I had to force her to save all her money and invest. Now she resigned to come with me to the US.
But I cant even imagine giving half of what I had made
It is just that I have come a very very long way to get it.
Jewels, Thanks for your patience and details, sorry if I sounded rude