Originally Posted by Martian

Before today it never occurred to me that people would have preferences on these things.

Most of my life so far I've had a bed to myself, so it's been a non-issue. I had one ex who insisted hat she preferred the side closest to the wall, but in practice as we got more comfortable it ended up being wherever we fell. I had a twin bed at the time, so it was pretty cozy no matter how we were arranged.

No woman in my life before or since has expressed any kind of a preference. If one did, she'd get her way as I'm quite sure I don't care.

When I get to the point of sharing a bed with Magpie, we'll have to deal with this all over again. The real question is, how do two people who are used to having a bed entirely to themselves co-exist in the limited space of a queen sized futon?