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My definition of being independent is an ability to make decisions to accommodate your well being. I hang out with my friends when their schedules as well as mine allow.
I had some friends in high school and we lost contact after I moved countries, like twice!! When meeting people, after finding out "what tickles yer fancy" you'll be more confident in a)conversation, b)interaction, c)behaviors and such... like knowing what to say, what's inappropriate and so on.
And honestly, you cant hung out with a bunch of people...?!! Crowds are good for, ehhh... concerts, nights out, you only need 2-4 friends at a time to hold a good conversation! By doing stuff by yourself it just means not jumping to go out for dinner at the minute you get some free time!!
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