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Acetylene · 09-09-2008, 01:02 PM

I think you might be too young to consider being engaged at the moment.

I know, nobody likes to hear that. I didn't either when I was 18 and had been with the same boy for 4 years and thought I was ready. But you sound a lot like me when I was a teenager, and I would strongly, STRONGLY recommend letting yourself grow a little more before thinking about "forever" with ANYONE.

Don't worry so much about whether he is dissatisfied with you. If he is not satisfied, then he needs to tell you what he wants; you aren't a mind reader, after all! And, of course, the same goes for you - if you want something, or you don't like what he's doing, you should tell him.

Good luck, and have a little fun. Don't worry so much about "forever" right now; eternity can wait! Your youth is for learning and exploring, and you are staying safe (not having sex) so it's not like there are any risks involved.

Of course (it has to be said!) if you do decide to have sex, WEAR A CONDOM! Condoms will protect you and they don't get in the way. Don't let any boyfriend convince you to have sex without a condom.

09-09-2008, 01:02 PM	#20 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	I think you might be too young to consider being engaged at the moment. I know, nobody likes to hear that. I didn't either when I was 18 and had been with the same boy for 4 years and thought I was ready. But you sound a lot like me when I was a teenager, and I would strongly, STRONGLY recommend letting yourself grow a little more before thinking about "forever" with ANYONE. Don't worry so much about whether he is dissatisfied with you. If he is not satisfied, then he needs to tell you what he wants; you aren't a mind reader, after all! And, of course, the same goes for you - if you want something, or you don't like what he's doing, you should tell him. Good luck, and have a little fun. Don't worry so much about "forever" right now; eternity can wait! Your youth is for learning and exploring, and you are staying safe (not having sex) so it's not like there are any risks involved. Of course (it has to be said!) if you do decide to have sex, WEAR A CONDOM! Condoms will protect you and they don't get in the way. Don't let any boyfriend convince you to have sex without a condom. __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.