Originally Posted by Katyanna

I believe that physical attraction is what would draw us to a person, but not what holds us there. If any of us are at a large gathering I highly doubt that we would feel that gravitational pull towards someone who we don't find attractive. Meeting someone in a somewhat anonymous way and getting a chance to know the inner beauties of a person before being eyed-up and down and suffering that immediate all to quick judgment has to make a substantial difference. I know in my current relationship, having met online, I am very doubtful that we would have come together in the way that we have for various reasons. I wouldn't jump to say that we are all obsessed with beauty etc, but I do believe that such a meeting gives us an entirely different perspective.