Cervantes

I've been going nuts trying to google this word but I can't find anything about this subject.

I remember a couple of years ago, I saw a talkshow where a lesbian woman was interviewed because of her rather novel approach to sexuality.

Basically she focuses only on the pleasure of her partner, not wanting nor allowing her partner to reciprocate. Her whole focus was only on pleasuring, refusing to be pleasured.

What I'm looking for is the word for this specific "attitude". Two hours of googiling and all I can find is lists of paraphilias which I doubt this specific attitude falls under.

Would appreciate any help on this subject..

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